Why does one driver drive to close to another?

Driving too close the the driver in front is both dangerous and irresponsible. So  why do drivers do this? Sit them down and point it out and most would agree it is a dangerous practice. So why do it?

It comes down to their survival and ‘other priorities’.

For example:

Their survival reason could be they are hungry or need a bathroom break and by being close to you gets them to the food or bathroom sooner, but of course it doesn’t.

Their priorities could be they are late for an appointment and being close to the car in front gives the feeling they are doing something positive about it. Wheras if they used their intelligence a little more they could probably find safer opportunities to make headway along the road.

How many times have you been overtaken by someone who was travelling close to you and you to then catch them up at the next traffic light? Your perception was ‘you didn’t get very far’. Their perception was ‘I have made progress and I won’t be late’.

I have had cars almost touching my rear bumper  whilst I was driving at 60mph before finally overtaking me. 10 minutes later I could be ahead at a second set of traffic lights by a good 50 metres.

Who is the least stressed with a safer result?

One psychologist put it more simply

‘They are lonely and need the company of other humans, a basic instinct of a human’.

 

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Parking Bays

I was recently waiting in a supermarket car park when I noticed another driver park over two bays, there were plenty of available spaces.

“What bad manners and irresponsible parking” I thought.

There was no possible reason for such an inconsiderate way to park a car. I then noticed the female driver get out which then changed my thoughts.

“She is a very clever driver” I now thought.

Why my change of thought?

She was as overweight as anyone I had ever seen driving a car. A very clever woman leaving half a parking bay clear on both sides so that she could get back in her car. I now try and think of possibilities when I see something apparently not logical to me, but maybe it is to someone else.

 

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Why do drivers flash their headlights?

I have noticed on several occasions that whilst teaching a new driver how to emerge from a junction that another motorist will ‘flash their headlights’ to apparently let the learner driver go first, even though it’s not the learners priority.

‘So what you might’? ask, Yes a common enough situation, but what happens next is the puzzle.

The learner driver takes a few seconds longer to react than a qualified driver would and the guy who flashed the lights races off in a puff of smoke as if late for tomorrow.

Question: If the driver who flashed was in such a hurry, why stop in the first place?

A lot of the time if the driver who offers to let a learner driver go first was to look in the rear view mirror would see the road is clear behind and the learner could have moved away anyway and no one would be confused. Especially as I now have to explain the Highway Code rule on flashing headlights and priority’s to my learner driver.

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Fuel Price

Today’s fuel prices are the highest they have ever been. I used to complain, as a lot of motorists do, that the tax on fuel is excessive. The AA motoring organisation in the past have commented on the fact that for every £20 of fuel you put into your gas tank £17 goes in tax.

This used to really annoy a lot of people including myself unti one day I saw a news clip about the price of fuel. An oil barron was being interviewed about the latest rise in fuel tax and he said that the British Governments tax on fuel is excessively high and because of that he couldn’t put up the price of a barrel of oil!

I think I would rather my money went to the UK government rather than a rich oil barron. The interview certainly changed my perspective. The price of oil will never drop, just depends on your perception who you want to take your money.

 

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